I always had day in my life when I am my best I wake
up early ready to go to work have my gym schedule clean the dishes, cook my
food and my agenda is on time, and there is also me the one who’s never on
time wake up at 11am I missed my lessons and late for work, sometimes I stop cooking
and I eat whatever I find in the fridge, the room is a mess I’m a mess
everything around me is a mess.
And I think that I’m not the only one suffering from
this, actually a lot of people have this kind of problems if not most of them,
these might be a relief when you see that you are not the only one who has
this kind of mess in your life, but the question is does it help?
Of course not, and I am talking from my experience when
I was a kid my high school university,
writing my Master's degree thesis, last period of searching for a job.
Bad choices in the past
As I see how things went in the past I know now that I
had other choices to make, for example, the summer when I had my license
diploma I went out looking for a job as in hospitals, in laboratories, industries,
Mills, but due to my lack of experience I had none, I could go
for an internship and try again I might be lucky the second time, but I didn’t I
chose to continue studying even I didn’t like at the beginning thinking this is
the only choice has left.
So thinking the way that we have one choice makes us stuck
in with regrets, stuck with a job we don’t like, a bad relationship, crazy family, bad choices in general which doesn’t bring out the best in us. Now I know that
no matter what the situation I’m in I can make the right decision I just need
to look at different sides. Ok what I want to say I hated those days even it
was a good chance to learn more but I didn’t use it well and that as I said
I wasn’t serious about it I wasn’t studying often didn’t care I was sleeping all day and most of the week
that how it started
-Do what you love and suits
your life.
If you are doing something you
don’t like? change it now.
If it’s hard at the moment learn
from it as much you can then change it.
I’m really happy now that I have
a master degree it’s will open a great number of opportunities in my way lucky
me ;).
Living in a mess always a problem
About how the mess affects our
life and daily routine, look at this, sometimes it’s my turn to make lunch and
diner because I don't live alone and if I miss that I have to buy fast food and it’s not good, my father hates it, I
hate it and then he starts nagging on my head all day, it makes my day worse his day also
he may get sick cause he has some stomach problems, I may forget stuff to do or interrupt
my writing my training my sleep and we may even fight and ending up wasting a whole day and the same with the dishes.
I think it’s clear now and you
also have your own mess, so in the morning you may need to try to make your schedule less messy at least and start with things
you have to do and things that may affect other people’s lives.
Sometimes some people don’t
know how to organize things they can clean
they are strong but the organization isn’t their strong point YouTube is you
solution YouTubers show how to do that all time house organization routine organization life
books work place just go there and try 4 or 5 things and change them as you
like eventually you will make a better one for yourself.
If your mess is about so many problems in different
parts of your life try facing each one at a time and sure you can ask for help
that what family friends are for you can even ask strangers there are good people
everywhere you can count on know you are not alone.
the mess is not good for your life to learn how to organize your room and your house, your life. Use to-do list task
apps you can learn how to create systems to organize anything from work to food
to entertainment to your lifestyle.
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Distraction
I always try to workout at
home and I get distracted every time by basically everything I may play with my
little sister or clean my desk, I may go make a sandwich or let’s get
some sleep or social media time especially these days of confinement.
Distraction is usually the main reason not to stay consistent on your daily routine, we are creatures
easily distracted sometimes is just our mined resisting what we are doing it’s
natural so we need to fight back until it’s that resistance kept getting out of
our way we need determination and motivation and a good reason with a way to
trick the mind into letting me workout the day I want.
This is how I managed to start
Last two weeks I spent them
telling myself “tomorrow I will definitely workout” but it didn’t happen till
today, today I was planning to write and share this article with you guys and
that when the trick came into my head, I decided not to share it until I train
knowing that this article is so important to me.
Even I had a good reason to
workout I kept screwing around all the time the reason is I’m
getting fat and I hate that, even I love working out, but nothing happens I needed
the trick.
A trick won’t work without determination –
motivation – reason to change your situation.
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