How Do You Get To Know Yourself ????

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“Empty your cup so that it may be filled, become devoid to gain totality”

-         Bruce lee     -

If you ask me about myself I would probably repeat most of what I wrote on my bio and then I would stop talking I don’t know I never thought about it more than that until I star facing  new things and new situations and new people which I reacted differently than I was expecting.

This is a big deal for me and it should be either I like it or not I’m not saying that I don’t remember what I do or my life I’ talking about the way I see myself that isn’t right.

I remember telling my friend that if you want to see things right you should get out of yourself then see the whole picture, I don’t do that anymore and this is a mistake I think.

This is an important thing to go through in your life, here you will find out who you really are, what you love and what you want to do now and in the future, your dreams, you will be able to control your feeling and emotions, most of all your weaknesses and strengths. You will know the things that define a person. Age and how much money doesn’t.

“Become devoid to gain totality”

This is a good way to learn more about anything actually, by taking out everything you think you know and start all over again.

 As much as easy as it looks, believe it’s not, because during this experience you are going to face YOU, you will see everything you do think of like filming your life and watching it more than once, this means that you will see yourself doing your bad habits, good things you will be angry and disappointed ashamed maybe some times you will be proud happy you will see everything you do.

I really hate doing it, it is exhausting your ego will come and interrupts you most of the time of course I liked the old me and get used to it.

Just try to be open-minded and accept what you see and who you are the fast you do it the fast and better you get at this experience. At least that’s not what you want to for the rest of your life.

Once you are feeling good with these changes you will get to know your real potential in life what you are able to do and what you are not, this will impress you we all know that life is so hard that can beat you down until you think you can’t stand up on your feet but you will get to know how tough you are and that you can do what you want.

For me, I started this habit of going through my day before I go to sleep which is not helping me getting much rest I can’t sleep sometimes I get deep in my day then start remembering past and everything, it keeps me thinking all night then be angry or hate myself or sometimes happy I did some good thing I’m not that bad as a person go ask people who hate me. : P : P : P.

Being happy is good but the question is why I’m being angry and hating myself from remembering things from my past.

I can use some help if you know what to do about that ???

That was the inside now I will tell you about the Outside I mean seeing myself as a fat man who needs to get in shape sooner before I get lost in work again which makes things harder, so I started filming myself exercising this is what I saw

I dance a lot   and I dance like a 60 years old man hhhhhhh that was bad hhhhhhhh but when I start I concentrate on my moves, So that was good for me actually I liked it. And I really have so much fat working on it :p.

This helped me go to train without tricking myself into it.   Bonus ;)  

I’m going to keep it this way, it helps me train often than before and

“The journey of thousand miles starts with one step”

Try answering these questions it may help find your way.

by  David K. Wiliam

1. Who am I really?

2. What worries me most about the future?

3. If this were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?

4. What am I really scared of?

5. Am I holding on to something I need to let go of?

6. If not now, then when?

7. What matters most in my life?

8. What am I doing about the things that matter most in my life?

9. What do I matter?

10. Have I done anything lately worth remembering?

11. Have I made someone smile today?

12. What have I given up on?

13. When did I last push the boundaries of my comfort zone?

14. If I had to instill one piece of advice in a newborn baby’s mind, what advice would I give?

15. What small act of kindness was I once shown that I will never forget?

16. How shall I live, knowing I will die?

17. What do I need to change about myself?

18. Is it more important to love or be loved?

19. How many of my friends would I trust with my life?

20. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?

21. Would I break the law to save a loved one?

22. Would I steal to feed a starving child?

23. What do I want most in life?

24. What is life calling of me?

25. Which is worse: failing or never trying?

26. If I try to fail, and succeed, which have I done?

27. What’s the one thing I’d like others to remember about me at the end of my life?

28. Does it really matter what others think about me?

29. To what degree have I actually controlled the course my life has taken?

30. When it’s all said and done, will I have said more than I’ve done?

Some of these questions might make us uncomfortable at times, but it’s important to remember they give us valuable insight on ourselves and guide us to live in ways that bring the most fulfillment and joy. These are questions worth asking every day.

Conclusion

Doing this makes win yourself and by that, you will win your future it may be hard at the beginning but it’s worth it, we all want other people to be honest with us why we don’t do the same about ourselves first.